Human Design Exposed: The Real Reason You Struggle to Connect
Voices of Relationship in Human Design
Throat Gates, Genetic Imprints & Why Most Communication Issues Start Here
Communication is the foundation of every relationship, yet most couples never realize the real source of their misunderstandings isn’t “what they say,” but how their Throat is designed to speak.
In this powerful class, Dr. LaVeena Archers (Education Director at Jovian Archive) dives deep into the Voices of Relationship through the lens of Human Design’s Throat Center gates and genetic imprints.
Watch the full video here: [Vimeo/YouTube Embed: https://youtu.be/c-f4MlL2k-4]
What You’ll Discover in This Class
Why 90 % of communication problems trace back to your individual Throat configuration first
The 11 Throat gates and their unique “voices” (insist, desist, encourage, caution, possess, contribute, lead, remember, know, try, and more)
How dominance, compromise, and electromagnetic connections change whose voice actually speaks in a partnership
Real chart examples of celebrity couples: Beckhams, Prince Harry & Meghan, John Lennon & Yoko Ono, Prince Charles & Camilla, Jennifer Lopez & Ben Affleck, Tom Cruise & Nicole Kidman, Elon Musk & Grimes, and more
The difference between words and frequency (especially for 5th-line beings)
How to listen for conditioning in your own voice — and your partner’s
Practical ways to honor each person’s correct voice so relationships thrive instead of drain
Dr. LaVeena teaches directly from Ra Uru Hu’s original material while adding her signature clarity and real-world application.
Full Class Transcript (Cleaned & Time-Stamped)
Video length: ~86 minutes
[00:00 – 04:00] “The majority of communication issues by and large are from the throat configuration in an individual as first and foremost a priority to address… Communication style meaning: are they the one to initiate conversation? They have energy to the throat… If you have an undefined throat, then your communication is going to be there when it is asked or invited.”
[04:00 – 08:00] “Ra says the gates in your throat are a key to you because it’s something that you yourself need to hear… Listen for your voices… Five is sound. It’s sound frequency. It’s not so much the words that you use — it’s the quality of the voice.”
[08:00 – 15:00] Throat as the nexus point for manifestation and civilization. Review of the 11 gates with their binary voices (e.g., 35: encourage/discourage progress & wealth; 12: caution/abandon; 45: possessive/non-possessive tribal mouthpiece; 33: remember/forget past experiences).
[15:00 – 25:00] Famous couple breakdowns begin: Beckhams, Harry & Meghan (Sun/Venus in 12), Charles & Camilla (Uranus 45 dominance), Lennon/Ono (Charisma channel dominance), JLo & Ben (Mercury 33 influence).
[25:00 – 40:00] Individual voices: Gate 8 (“I can / I can’t”), Gate 31 (lead / powerless), Gate 20 (“I am” – decisive only when knowing is present). Integration channels and the complexity of the individual process.
[40:00 – 60:00] Logic & abstract streams, approval/disapproval (Gate 16), emotional wave influence on voices, open Throat borrowing, and why frequency matters more than content.
[60:00 – 86:00] Grimes & Elon Musk chart analysis, homework for your own relationships, next week’s class on fixing throat & Mercury compromises, closing Q&A.
Key Human Design Takeaways You Can Use Today
Always check the individual Throat first — before analyzing the couple connection.
Listen to frequency, not just words — tone, cadence, and energy reveal conditioning faster than content.
Honor defined vs. undefined Throats — Defined initiates; undefined waits to be invited or recognized.
Watch for dominance & compromise — One person’s defined gate can override the other’s voice.
Your correct voice is your greatest relationship tool — When both partners speak from their design, arguments drop dramatically.
This class is pure gold for anyone in a partnership, working with clients on relationships, or simply wanting deeper self-understanding through their Throat mechanics.
FAQ – Voices of Relationship in Human Design
Q: Do I need my partner’s chart to benefit? A: No. Start with your own Throat gates and voice — that alone transforms every conversation.
Q: What if I have an undefined Throat? A: Your voice is only reliable when invited or recognized. Learning to wait prevents the classic “talking into the void” feeling.
Q: How does this connect to 2027 and the end of the Cross of Planning? A: As institutions collapse and individual differentiation rises, correct personal voice becomes even more essential for authentic relationships and business.
Q: Where can I get my full chart with Throat gates highlighted? A: Free at thehumandesignsystem.com
Ready to Master Your Voice & Your Relationships? This class is part of the ongoing professional and personal development series at ICONIC Human Design.
Enroll in live classes, private readings, or the full Human Design Mastery path here: → https://thehumandesignsystem.com → https://humandesign.live (live community membership) → Book a reading: https://go.oncehub.com/humandesignsystem
Drop your biggest “aha” in the comments: Which Throat gate or couple example hit home for you? Have you noticed your voice changing as you decondition?
With love and correct frequency,
Dr. LaVeena Archers ICONIC Human Design | thehumandesignsystem.com
